Krungsri,
Thanks for your kind words about my "wide reading" and "sustained reflection" concerning things Thai specifically and East Asian in general. I, too, respect your longevity in Thailand, your wonderful Thai wife, the fact of your adult children and even your position of a manager in education. However, while I'm about to buy larger hats, let me point out that I've been living and teaching in Thailand for the past nine years, so I have a great deal of real life experience. (I wouldn't want any reader getting the impression I might be a monk, reading and reflecting only.) First and always there's the living of life in Thailand, then the reading and then the reflecting--but always the experience of applying what I read and interacting on the basis of the reading and reflecting; and reading and reflecting on the basis of the totality of the experience.
Allow me to reset your frame of reference. The frame of reference is not that of a farang educator trying to 'impose' his view of the world on his hosts. Before I came to Thailand (and before that went to teach English in S. Korea) I read the excellent book by the China expert Jonathan D. Spence, "To Change China," in which Dr. Spence eloquently describes the painful futility of Western missionaries and others in 19th century China, Westerns who for decades suffered thru their inability to remake China into a place in their own image. Prof. Spence is a specialist of the period.
The correct frame of reference is that Thailand is one of approximately 100 "Developing" countries. Since the advent and advance of the Industrial Revolution, which enabled about three dozen countries to become what presently are called the "advanced" economies of the world, other laggards or self-satisfied Old World countries have decided that wealth, a high standard of living and a high quality of life--to include education--aren't necessarily such bad things. So for the past 50 years the developing countries have been and are, well, developing. The progressive world has imposed itself upon the slow and the smug multiplicity of Old World countries, their economies, societies, cultures, their civilization. This is the accurate and true frame of reference vis-a-vis farang and contemporary Thailand, especially in respect to education in Thailand.
No farang teacher goes home a broken man, as it were, because of the fact that the Thai elites resist the Thai peoples' need and passion to develop, to progress; to advance. For you to write that Dr. McFarland returned to the USA after 40 years in Thailand "perhaps a disappointed man" who, moreover, died a year later ( ! ) is a wrong cultural and social interpretation. Wouldn't it seem more reasonable to deduce that the Thai-compliant Dr. McFarland instead returned to his native country after two score years in Thailand as an elderly man who wanted to die among his own family and native surroundings? To be interred in his own native soil? I doubt that it took all of 40 years of presumably being bashed about Thailand for the missionary Dr. McFarland finally to come to his senses, ie, to realize the futility to all of the many and endlessly unsuccessful endeavours to change Thailand. You yourself point out that the late Thailand specialist and author David Wyatt described Dr. McFarland as a compliant accomplice to the 19th century Thai elites.
The broken man argument, if there is one, would instead apply to Dr. Thaksin, who recently was deposed from his prime ministership and remains in exile from his native land. Dr.Thaksin and his Thai Rak Thai (Thais Love Thais) party, founded in 1998 and first elected in 2001, have made such a mess of Thailand that a military coup d' etat intervened on Sept 19th to preclude TRT's sending of organized thugs against a scheduled Sept 20 anti-government rally to create the violence that would have brought a declaration of a State of Emergency by Thaksin and dictatorial rule.
Please stay with me as the matter of farang managers of education in Thailand intertwines with Thaksin and the Thai Rak Thai party and the coup. Thailand was the epicenter of the 1997 East Asia economic meltdown. The 1997 East Asia financial collapse, which began in Thailand, did not begin here due to happenstance or coincidence. The wild and uncontrolled and unregulated corruption, greed, swindling, scheming, cheating, bamboozling during a period of great growth and prosperity in Thailand precipitated the 1997 financial collapse, which nearly had global ramifications as well.
Rather than the Thai elites learning that they had much to learn about creating and managing a deveoping economy, society, culture and civilization, Thaksin and TRT came forth to resist modernization, the rule of law, the system of checks and balances in government, prudent managment of economic growth and wealth creation, creating a new paradigm of education and, indeed of the whole of Thailand. TRT wouldn't do the things that had been done in Japan, S. Korea, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Singapore etc. No, TRT was organized to resist change, to fight it, and to oppose the intrusion of the modern world into Thailand.
Item: When Thaksin's license to kill in the name of drug wars was criticised by the UN as an abuse of the rule of law, due process, human rights etc, Thaksin's response was that: "The UN is not my father."
Item: When the Thai press/media and the groups of Thai civil society asked Thaksin about his strangling of democracy, Thaksin's response was that: "Democracy is not my goal."
There are many more items, a Bill of Particulars, as it were. (Read the Junta's recent statement.) The TRT resistance to modernization is the spirit and often the letter of what Thai owners and/or managers in education require of their farang operatives. The elites of education in Thailand require that only the 19th century Dr. McFarlands may apply or be considered for positions of management, supervision, direction in education in Thailand. This is the core of the problem. Indeed, Thaksin and TRT had about five Ministers of Education during their five years of esconcing an innovatively reactionary government. One shameless TRT MoE called the learner-centered classroom "buffalo learning." I rejected the invitation of Thai owners of education to become a coordinator, manager, assistant director--whatever title--because of this intransigence on their part. I've seen too many buffalo owners and buffalo farang managers in education in Thailand to want to join their number.
The only farangs in education in Thailand who after decades in Thailand return to their native countries in disappointment or feeling a vacuum within are those who spend many years carrying the water alloted to them by the Thai owners/senior managers of education in Thailand. My conscience remains clear because I prefer to teach Thai learners, to teach that which the learners know they need to know to live in the IT economy of the present and future. I am pleased to be able to continue to teach to my Thai learners the values of human rights, democracy, the ways and means of developing a wealth-creating and fair economy, a society that has a steadily improving standard of living and quality of life; the need of a new paradigm of education in Thailand and a new paradigm for a developing Thailand.
When I do return to my native land--whenever that may be--I can expect to be an even more pleased and satisfied person than I am and always have been in Thailand. Maybe by that time Thaksin shall have been allowed to return to his native and, no thanks to Thaksin and TRT, developed country. And, perhaps the resistance to change that Thaksin and TRT embody shall long have been overcome in education in Thailand and throughout Thailand as a whole. Let's throw out both the buffaloes and the bath water!